- All or nothing thinking. Seeing things in black and white; anything short of perfection is seen as failure.
- Over-generalization. Seeing a single negative event as a never-ending pattern of defeat.
- Mental filter. Dwelling on a single negative detail that colors all reality.
- Disqualifying the positive. Rejecting positive experiences to sustain negative beliefs.
- Jumping to conclusions. Making negative conclusions not supported by facts.
- Mind reading. Arbitrarily concluding others are reacting negatively to you without verification.
- Fortune telling. Anticipating, and experiencing as an established fact, things turning out badly.
- Magnification. Exaggerating the importance of things.
- Minimization. Inappropriately reducing the value of things or qualities of others.
- Emotional reasoning. Assuming negative emotions reflect the way things really are.
- Labeling. Attaching labels to yourself and others and describing events in emotionally-loaded phrases.
- Should statements. Motivating yourself with "shoulds" and "should nots" which results in guilt and anger.
- Personalization. Seeing yourself as the cause for events which you had no control over.
Found this list on the net today and yes, I reckon I've done the lot in the last 10 hours.
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